Do you know what is three things that man makes great first love second devotion for the work & third the most important thing knowing to one selves..if u become master in three u can be a great personality......the first problem is love how you can get the love from others...for fulfilling the first requirement you have to love yourselves don't take it in terms of selfishness. love to oneself means if you are in trouble you become irritate to yourselves. you always think about the problem rather than getting the solution. you should understand where is the root cause of the problem then you can solve it easily.The second problem is how to devote for work.its so easy if you love yourselves you will give the love to others.every opportunity which comes in your way you will accept it open heartily then what will be the result you will be totally devoted for work. if you talked about the third one knowing to ourselves means make a relationship between heart and mind.you are the really good person me.